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Are you afraid of making an apology or encountering some problems when saying an apology to an ex? Or maybe you don’t have any ideas and guts at all on how to begin you’re apology that will really show your’ genuinely and heartily asking of forgiveness? Worry no more, because here are the top secrets that may help you out on how to apologize to an ex genuinely, sincerely and heartily.

1.) First thing you need to consider is to know the reason why you’re asking for an apology and the most important thing that you need to control with is your emotion.

• Just Always stay calm and never show your anger because when you’re anger strikes out when asking for an apology. It simply shows that you’re apologizing untruthfully and you’re not also sincerely and heartily asking for forgiveness at all.
• Never ever put blame on your partner or even to yourself for the mistake that you have made.
• Never expect for an immediately forgiveness after an apology has made.

2.) After knowing all the proper ways of asking for an apology the next step you need to do is to determine the kind of apology that you’re going to make for certain mistakes.

Secrets on How to Apologize to an Ex with Small or Simple Mistakes:

We All know that making an apology to an ex with small mistakes made is the easiest way to do right? But we need to be very careful on the words that we will use to start the apology.

Here is an Example Situation: You’re 30 minutes late to Your Dinner Date

Let us say that you came 30 minutes late on your dinner date and you’re ex has waited you for so long at the restaurant. So your first approach would be asking for an immediate sorry/ apology why you came late and then you must right away state the reason it took you so long to arrived on your dinner date.

Your Apology statement would look like this; “ Honey, I know how you feel now so I am really, really sorry that I’m 30 minutes late and waited you for so long, it just happened that I had a very important meeting with my Managers. But it doesn’t mean that I have abandoned you or took you for granted, it just happened that I’m not allowed to take an absent on the said meeting. But don’t worry I will make it up with you to spend more time with you tomorrow because it’s my day-off. ”

Secrets on How to Apologize to an Ex with Big Mistakes

Just always remember that if you have made a big mistake, never ask for an apology right after the mistake has made, just take some time for to person to lessen the pain and heal the heartaches that you have brought. And when the right time comes that you’re going to ask for an apology, always say it in person and have an eye-to- eye contact to that person so that he/she can see your sincerity and truthfulness.

Here is an Example Situation; You’re having a Third party and Cheated on Your Ex:

Establish the Feelings- You really need to know their feelings and clarify how they feel and if it doesn’t really show their feelings inside ask them. And after knowing it show a little sympathy to them and always make sure that you’re not having a violent voice tone.

If they started with; “I’m really mad at you because you cheated on me” You can response on that by saying this: “I understand why you’re very mad at me” And after that you can say that “I know that you have the right to get mad at me and upset because I cheated on you”

• Be Responsible- Now that you have already known their real feelings after the mistake that have made, it’s the time to be responsible enough to explain to them sincerely and truthfully the reason why you have made that mistake.
• Heartily and Sincerely Giving of Apology- Right after telling the reason behind that mistake you must immediately ask for an apology without waiting or expecting anything in return.
• Stay Calm And Quiet - Last thing to do after asking for an apology is to remain calm and quiet always and wait for his/her turn to tell something to you and it’s time for you Listen carefully.

But if you don’t hear anything from them, just simply walk away and respect their decision that maybe it’s not yet the right time for them to talk to you or discuss things about it or just simply he/she is not ready to give forgive you. And all you need to do is to wait for the right time they that he/she is ready enough to talk or discuss about it and ready to give to you their forgiveness.

Writer;

 SHERRY MAY PANCHO